Curt :-) said:This topic was of particular interest to me because I have always been fit, well dressed/groomed, and am regularly told that I am a reasonable looking dude, yet get zero attention from girls whatsoever. If there was in fact some sort of pheromone thing going on here, it would explain a lot, as I have had low T forever (but it's slowly coming back up now thanks to Peating).
I don't want to pop your balloon here, but it MAY have a difference, but very minimal.
What attention do you expect from women? That they stare at you, walk over to you and seduce you?? It just doesn't happen. Unfortunately as a man you have to make the first move, and rarely do you get strong enough obvious signals to make this pain-free.
What's more determinant of a man than the smell of his testosterone is if he goes for what he desires with an air of detachment, and is able to project his own personality without crumbling, and accept that he'll get "rejected" a fair amount of times. If you're out, 90% of meeting women comes down to just going and talking to them, simple.
if you are out in a bar, you can expect at least 75% of the women you speak to, to just not be interested for various reasons that you can't control, down to them, their situation in life, the setting of where you are, and then another portion down to you, you just have to build social freedom and talk to women you're attracted to, be able to realise when you have a connection and don't be shy to show or tell them, and accept when you don't and move on and not relate it to you as a person. There's no magic tricks or words that work on everyone, or even the majority. I guess you have to talk to 10 women to find one where both of you are physically and emotionally attracted to each other and she is in the right head space to be meeting someone at that particular moment in time. Most relationships develop through your extended social circle and work environments anyway, so you're better working on your life and life situation in general, not worrying about women smelling your testosterone levels
It sounds like you're waiting for a woman to talk to you for 1 minute, or even just see you, and put up a green light saying "I want you, now come get me". It's not going to happen! Go talk to people, socialise, have fun, do hobbies, meet more people. Ask your friends to set you up with someone they think you would get on with. Simple, and yet very difficult at the same time :)