25-year-old Canadian Woman Looking for Love

[OccamzRazer]

25?

Hey now! You look about 70 in your profile pic

 

[tankasnowgod]

As the title states, I'm a young woman from Canada that would love to meet a man in the bioenergetic, pro-metabolic community. I was introduced to Ray Peat through a friend about 3 years ago, and it has radically helped me on my journey in healing a health condition. I'd love to meet someone for whom Peaty principles have also been influential!

I am looking for a meaningful connection with a Christian man with traditional values, who wants to live a quiet, simple life close to nature (and have lots of babies!).

In all seriousness, can we make a dating site for Peaters? (Trying to think of a pun with "Peat" in it, but coming up short!)

Wow, 10 pages in, and no one has even tried to flirt with you? Welp, time to change that.

Hello, Concious. Are you new around here? I've been coming to this place for a while now. Maybe too long. But, most of the people here are pretty cool, and the food is great. Have you tried Haidut's Bioenergetic Burger? Or the fried chicken? They are both excellent!

It's always nice to meet other Metabolically Minded Singles. Especially one as pretty as yourself. I know we just met, but it's nice to know that, should we hit it off, I won't have to awkwardly explain later that I sleep on an inclined bed, use low red light at night to minimize the stress response, and also tape my mouth shut to increase CO2 retention. Heck, if it gets to that point, we can even put down a large altitude tent on our Wedding Registry!

But, I'm getting ahead of myself. You should probably know a few things.... I'm quite a bit older than you (more than a decade), and live about 1,000 miles south of the Canadian border. If any of those are issues (especially the fact that I use miles instead of kilometers), well, then maybe this relationship isn't going to work out. But I don't think the age thing will be too big an issue, since we will be moving to one of the smaller towns in Arizona at about 5000 ft elevation (there I go again, not using metric). Between that and the altitude tent and thyroid supplementation and serotonin antagonism, I figure we'll both live well into our 160s or later (like Shirali Muslimov). Then, we will be building and optimizing mitochondria all day long!

But, enough about me. Can I get you another Orange Juice?

 

[Vileplume]

- List of the most common U.S. place names - Wikipedia​

What a fun link! TIL there are 38 Arlingtons in the United States

 

[BibleBeliever]

If she is a Christian, then why are you not getting your father or pastor to get you a husband? If you will not submit to authority, then you would not be a good Biblical wife.
It is also noted you do not describe any beneficial attributes of yourself, if you really were seeking someone you would do so.
If you are advertising yourself you should put something to make yourself appear worthwhile.
Otherwise you will attract desperate weaklings.

The Scriptures teach that fornicators will not inherit the kingdom of heaven. 1 Corinthians 6:9 etc.
This method you use has a prospensity towards such.

Therefore it is doubtful that this person's post is accurate.

Do you fulfill Proverbs 31:10-31

Bible Gateway passage: Proverbs 31:10-31 - King James Version

Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. She is like...

www.biblegateway.com

10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.

11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.

12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.

 

[J.R.K]

I respect you for seeking this out. Nothing is better than an understanding loving partner and a family. Looking at the old American movies where women stay at home and raise children is something we admire very much in the gulf countries. The women in those classic movies wear conservative clothes and they speak with manners without swear words. Families always start with the woman. Good woman makes a good family. Best of luck to you and to whoever you meet. We need to encourage young people about the value of families and babies. Hollywood and woke culture want to steal this joy from ordinary people.

+1

 

[Dolomite]

Wow, 10 pages in, and no one has even tried to flirt with you? Welp, time to change that.

Hello, Concious. Are you new around here? I've been coming to this place for a while now. Maybe too long. But, most of the people here are pretty cool, and the food is great. Have you tried Haidut's Bioenergetic Burger? Or the fried chicken? They are both excellent!

It's always nice to meet other Metabolically Minded Singles. Especially one as pretty as yourself. I know we just met, but it's nice to know that, should we hit it off, I won't have to awkwardly explain later that I sleep on an inclined bed, use low red light at night to minimize the stress response, and also tape my mouth shut to increase CO2 retention. Heck, if it gets to that point, we can even put down a large altitude tent on our Wedding Registry!

But, I'm getting ahead of myself. You should probably know a few things.... I'm quite a bit older than you (more than a decade), and live about 1,000 miles south of the Canadian border. If any of those are issues (especially the fact that I use miles instead of kilometers), well, then maybe this relationship isn't going to work out. But I don't think the age thing will be too big an issue, since we will be moving to one of the smaller towns in Arizona at about 5000 ft elevation (there I go again, not using metric). Between that and the altitude tent and thyroid supplementation and serotonin antagonism, I figure we'll both live well into our 160s or later (like Shirali Muslimov). Then, we will be building and optimizing mitochondria all day long!

But, enough about me. Can I get you another Orange Juice?

@conscious You need to contact this guy. From what I have read he is very logical, creative and intelligent. I don't think he is being sarcastic with this post.
I wish you all the best. P. S. I am an older married woman and I think it is a big mess for young people now.

 

[J.R.K]

As the title states, I'm a young woman from Canada that would love to meet a man in the bioenergetic, pro-metabolic community. I was introduced to Ray Peat through a friend about 3 years ago, and it has radically helped me on my journey in healing a health condition. I'd love to meet someone for whom Peaty principles have also been influential!

I am looking for a meaningful connection with a Christian man with traditional values, who wants to live a quiet, simple life close to nature (and have lots of babies!).

In all seriousness, can we make a dating site for Peaters? (Trying to think of a pun with "Peat" in it, but coming up short!)

Welcome @conscious. Your idea is sound, people need common interests in a relationship. I think it is fair to say that the idea of the family has been under attack for a long time now, it is good to see that it is something that young people aspire towards.
I wish you the best of luck in all you are looking for here.
As a fellow Canadian if you need someone of like mind to converse with feel free to PM anytime as these are tumultuous times we are living in.

 

[J.R.K]

Wow, 10 pages in, and no one has even tried to flirt with you? Welp, time to change that.

Hello, Concious. Are you new around here? I've been coming to this place for a while now. Maybe too long. But, most of the people here are pretty cool, and the food is great. Have you tried Haidut's Bioenergetic Burger? Or the fried chicken? They are both excellent!

It's always nice to meet other Metabolically Minded Singles. Especially one as pretty as yourself. I know we just met, but it's nice to know that, should we hit it off, I won't have to awkwardly explain later that I sleep on an inclined bed, use low red light at night to minimize the stress response, and also tape my mouth shut to increase CO2 retention. Heck, if it gets to that point, we can even put down a large altitude tent on our Wedding Registry!

But, I'm getting ahead of myself. You should probably know a few things.... I'm quite a bit older than you (more than a decade), and live about 1,000 miles south of the Canadian border. If any of those are issues (especially the fact that I use miles instead of kilometers), well, then maybe this relationship isn't going to work out. But I don't think the age thing will be too big an issue, since we will be moving to one of the smaller towns in Arizona at about 5000 ft elevation (there I go again, not using metric). Between that and the altitude tent and thyroid supplementation and serotonin antagonism, I figure we'll both live well into our 160s or later (like Shirali Muslimov). Then, we will be building and optimizing mitochondria all day long!

But, enough about me. Can I get you another Orange Juice?

You sly dog @tankasnowgod !
You never cease to impress me.
Well done!

 

[AdR]

Already a legendary thread; the forum has been asleep for some months, so thanks for this contribution. best of luck

 

[Perry Staltic]

If she is a Christian, then why are you not getting your father or pastor to get you a husband? If you will not submit to authority, then you would not be a good Biblical wife.

Apart from maybe immigrants who come from countries where arranged marriages are normal, who even thinks like this in North America?

 

[Riesensackteil]

Not going to read the previous 9 pages but I bet none address the topic

 

[Peachy]

The app could be called...

-Meet n Peat
-Calcium Connections
-Saturated with Love
-Sweet Encounters
-Orange you Glad you Met Me?

Amazing! ???

 

[JamesGatz]

Wow, 10 pages in, and no one has even tried to flirt with you? Welp, time to change that.

Hello, Concious. Are you new around here? I've been coming to this place for a while now. Maybe too long. But, most of the people here are pretty cool, and the food is great. Have you tried Haidut's Bioenergetic Burger? Or the fried chicken? They are both excellent!

It's always nice to meet other Metabolically Minded Singles. Especially one as pretty as yourself. I know we just met, but it's nice to know that, should we hit it off, I won't have to awkwardly explain later that I sleep on an inclined bed, use low red light at night to minimize the stress response, and also tape my mouth shut to increase CO2 retention. Heck, if it gets to that point, we can even put down a large altitude tent on our Wedding Registry!

But, I'm getting ahead of myself. You should probably know a few things.... I'm quite a bit older than you (more than a decade), and live about 1,000 miles south of the Canadian border. If any of those are issues (especially the fact that I use miles instead of kilometers), well, then maybe this relationship isn't going to work out. But I don't think the age thing will be too big an issue, since we will be moving to one of the smaller towns in Arizona at about 5000 ft elevation (there I go again, not using metric). Between that and the altitude tent and thyroid supplementation and serotonin antagonism, I figure we'll both live well into our 160s or later (like Shirali Muslimov). Then, we will be building and optimizing mitochondria all day long!

But, enough about me. Can I get you another Orange Juice?

Another thing worth noting about tanka that the ladies might be interested in is that the horse mask in his pfp is not the only trait he has in common with horses...

 

[des yeux]

@Vileplume @Peachy I liked the name & grabbed the domain saturatedwithlove.com What do you think I should host there?

I feel for the OP posting here. For me it's as if a gulf emerged between myself and people I'm close to during the covid madness. I feel like all young people have been socially stunted, and the damage in Quebec is immeasurable. I'm hoping Alberta will hold better so that I have somewhere in this country to stay.

 

[Vileplume]

@Vileplume @Peachy I liked the name & grabbed the domain saturatedwithlove.com What do you think I should host there?

I feel for the OP posting here. For me it's as if a gulf emerged between myself and people I'm close to during the covid madness. I feel like all young people have been socially stunted, and the damage in Quebec is immeasurable. I'm hoping Alberta will hold better so that I have somewhere in this country to stay.

Wow, that’s so cool! Have you ever made an app or anything before?

I wonder how possible it is to embed an API to randomly match two subscribers with photos, then let them chat.

And even if it’s not a full-fledged dating app, it could be a resource for people to post studies related to Peaty nutrition as well as psychological or romantic.

 

[JamesGatz]

No, they don't.

"OOGLING", cat calls, and thirsty DM's on Instagram - these are not the same as a guy actually approaching a girl in a calibrated manner during the daytime (aka "daygame"). It NEVER happens. You are lying to OP if you tell her this is so. There are TONS of posts on this forum about the crisis of masculinity, people being lonely, testosterone levels falling, etc. - and you think all these damaged guys are out here approaching girls IRL? NOPE!


This is some really black-pill material dude. I don't know you, but if I did, I'd be worried about you. I get that there are some bad women out there, but extrapolating the tendencies of a bad minority of women to the good majority of women out there is going to really mess you up. If this is the type of vibe you put out into the world, the world is going to give you this vibe back.

It is rarely seen - the fact of the matter is all women know they have options - every single one knows their worth hence why rejection with them for many men is common - they don't need to or care much for being approached by average men - it's an ego boost to them

The brain of a women is focused on pleasure and fantasy - driving dopamine is far more important to them than men- this is not a small minority of women - this is a common trait they share

- Their affinity to zodiac signs and the spiritual realm compared to men
- Their tendency to be obsessive over pleasurable/dopaminergic activities - social media/validation in the form of likes/attention, food, they are also quiet fond of high-dopamine animals such as canines
- Their sexual fantasies - Rape, BDSM, Gangbangs, and Lesbian pornography are some of the most popular fantasies they indulge themselves in

"Daygame" is a joke - its a puppet show the girl accepts as a compliment and as entertainment while on her way to get absolutely demolished by a dude who doesn't text her back half the time

An attractive man lights up a woman's brain and pumps out dopamine that no amount of daygame will ever do - spending time on daygame rather than working towards becoming a man they subconsciously look for is a waste of time.

Girls have 2 sides they show to the world

1) The first is the "nice girl" side - they show this to the average guys approaching them asking out for dinner/dates

- having a boyfriend is nice to them because it's 24/7 validation - a person that constantly tells them/shows them they are important they enjoy for their mental health and plus it's free resources the man supplies.

Does a women actually care for her mate ? Nope
- If a women is dumped by her boyfriend she cries for a week then forgets he ever existed
- If the same thing happens to a men he's attached to it for months and years after

Women do not pair-bond with a male the same way males do with women - they see you as a lot more expendable than you see her.

2) The second side is her real side (behind closed doors) that she shows to other girls and the guys she genuinely likes/finds attractive

- this is the pleasure-seeking side of her that indulges in fantasies that normal men don't believe happens that often (when in reality it happens fairly often) - lesbian activity, gangbangs, etc, things of this nature

This is the truth of the world - I still like women and enjoy speaking with them, but I don't speak with them about dinner/dates because I know deep down they are looking for an attractive guy who will indulge with them in pleasure/dopamine activities

If you are a guy they actually find attractive
- they will approach you
- they will seek to spend time with you
- they will spend money on you
- they will tell you the truth about all the stuff they do and did in their glory days and in the present

 

[des yeux]

Wow, that’s so cool! Have you ever made an app or anything before?

I wonder how possible it is to embed an API to randomly match two subscribers with photos, then let them chat.

And even if it’s not a full-fledged dating app, it could be a resource for people to post studies related to Peaty nutrition as well as psychological or romantic.

I work in software yes but mostly data & backend stuff. The extent of my design skills is what you saw... or copy pasting haha.

It's hard to imagine that we need a dating app when you can just message whoever you like... but if there is enough demand I could see what can be done. What I thought was maybe just a community map where you pin your approximate location and that could rally people locally?

 

[Vileplume]

I work in software yes but mostly data & backend stuff. The extent of my design skills is what you saw... or copy pasting haha.

It's hard to imagine that we need a dating app when you can just message whoever you like... but if there is enough demand I could see what can be done. What I thought was maybe just a community map where you pin your approximate location and that could rally people locally?

True. With only 12,00 members spread throughout the world, and a majority of them either inactive or not likely to use the app, it’s highly unlikely that anyone will find a match on that app haha.

Your idea of the map is much more practical, and it’s sort of like what Amazoniac was talking to Georgi about in this thread. It would be pretty cool to see which Peaters live nearby and connect for a coffee or something. I’d definitely plug in my general area.

 

[Morgan]

It is rarely seen - the fact of the matter is all women know they have options - every single one knows their worth hence why rejection with them for many men is common - they don't need to or care much for being approached by average men - it's an ego boost to them

The brain of a women is focused on pleasure and fantasy - driving dopamine is far more important to them than men- this is not a small minority of women - this is a common trait they share

- Their affinity to zodiac signs and the spiritual realm compared to men
- Their tendency to be obsessive over pleasurable/dopaminergic activities - social media/validation in the form of likes/attention, food, they are also quiet fond of high-dopamine animals such as canines
- Their sexual fantasies - Rape, BDSM, Gangbangs, and Lesbian pornography are some of the most popular fantasies they indulge themselves in

"Daygame" is a joke - its a puppet show the girl accepts as a compliment and as entertainment while on her way to get absolutely demolished by a dude who doesn't text her back half the time

An attractive man lights up a woman's brain and pumps out dopamine that no amount of daygame will ever do - spending time on daygame rather than working towards becoming a man they subconsciously look for is a waste of time.

Girls have 2 sides they show to the world

1) The first is the "nice girl" side - they show this to the average guys approaching them asking out for dinner/dates

- having a boyfriend is nice to them because it's 24/7 validation - a person that constantly tells them/shows them they are important they enjoy for their mental health and plus it's free resources the man supplies.

Does a women actually care for her mate ? Nope
- If a women is dumped by her boyfriend she cries for a week then forgets he ever existed
- If the same thing happens to a men he's attached to it for months and years after

Women do not pair-bond with a male the same way males do with women - they see you as a lot more expendable than you see her.

2) The second side is her real side (behind closed doors) that she shows to other girls and the guys she genuinely likes/finds attractive

- this is the pleasure-seeking side of her that indulges in fantasies that normal men don't believe happens that often (when in reality it happens fairly often) - lesbian activity, gangbangs, etc, things of this nature

This is the truth of the world - I still like women and enjoy speaking with them, but I don't speak with them about dinner/dates because I know deep down they are looking for an attractive guy who will indulge with them in pleasure/dopamine activities

If you are a guy they actually find attractive
- they will approach you
- they will seek to spend time with you
- they will spend money on you
- they will tell you the truth about all the stuff they do and did in their glory days and in the present

This comes across as a narrow sighted vision on a much greater problem, you are "painting" reality with this kind of perspective; you are defining the kind of women that you will experience. So, I must ask, do you like it? Are you purposefully seeking immature women that haven't fully developed a real personality, and I can tell you that there are just as many men that have their own set of immature interpersonal dynamics.. It is akin to being around people that are not "awake", that do not question themselves or their chemistry, are too afraid to ask existential questions and instead submerge themselves in the ebb and flow of our fickle culture.

If you truly believe in what you are saying then I can't imagine the appeal of anyone that isn't genuinely capable of love, regardless of their gender, they are not worth the time.. In truth this feels like a reactionary perspective on a world and culture that treats men like ***t, that denies them their need for the same validation you have mentioned. It is not just the women from your perspective that see men as expendable.. it's the entire world and especially other men. This is the truth that everyone just continues to dance around, because it is ingrained in our pathetic "nature" and we haven't had the courage to properly overcome it.

 

[Hugh Johnson]

If we are going to talk about the differences between men and women, let's be real. About 90% of murder, rape, and assault is committed by men, the vast majority of other crimes too, with the sole exception of shoplifting.

Men are the ones that typically abandon the kids, while women rarely do. Porn addiction, internet addiction, drugs and alcohol use are also more men's problems. Mass shootings, nazis, wars and terrorism? Men almost all of them.

If I need help from a stranger, I will typically ask a woman, because in my experience that is more productive.

If I had a kid, I would dare to leave them with the average woman, not with the average man. It's not the nuns raping kids, it's the priests.

I have never been beaten by a group of women, in fact even a single woman in group moderates the aggression of the men.

In fact in almost all regards women are safer, kinder and more productive than men. They are wiser and clearly make better decisions, as shown by very few ending up in prison, dead or disabled at a young age compared to men.

The complaints about men are violence, crime, drugs, wars, rape. The complaints about women are them having sex and acting stupid on the internet, both things men do plenty.


Whatever real problems women have, like SSRI use, obesity etc. These are societal issues that affect men about as much. And the main architects of those issues were and are men.

So f u redpillers. If you were not losers, you would have no desire to bring down a random, and by all appearances, a lovely person just for daring to be a woman.