Well I'll be damned. He might just be autistic after allHaha, i've met her. I knew her before they knew eachother lol. Not sure about the kissing tho
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Well I'll be damned. He might just be autistic after allHaha, i've met her. I knew her before they knew eachother lol. Not sure about the kissing tho
Good advice. Might I add that if he eats a lot more calories suddenly without improving activity levels he could develop stomach, liver, and mitochondrial problems. Hiking would be great (assuming you live in a place with hiking trails) if he doesn't want to do strength training.Sounds exactly like me when I was his age. I can almost guarantee you it has nothing to do with autism.
His nutrition is nowhere near adequate to support a growing 16 year old male and pretty much everything about his lifestyle is extremely destructive. Without actually knowing him, I can already tell that his social life is basically nonexistent; his love life is definitely non existent and the sexual frustration will be through the roof. This will fuel the whole toxic Hikikomori lifestyle even more of course.
So the advice I would give to him is the same advice I would give to myself at this age:
1. Eat more nutrient and calorie dense foods. A LOT more. You can probably double your current calorie intake over the course of a few months. Drink liquid calories and eat a tablespoon of honey and coconut oil after each meal when you're full to get those calories up. Aim for 3500kcal-4000kcal. Stop being a little b**** with the whole "I don't like this"and "I'm not hungry". You're not eating because it's fun, you're eating to support a healthy and strong body.
Include oysters and liver in your diet and identify any potentially allergenic foods to get the acne under control. Some vitamin supplementation may be necessary in the beginning after years of under eating.
2. Start lifting weights. Any full body workout 3x / week will do. For example.
You will never naturally have the hormone profile that you have now again, take advantage of this.
3. Stop masturbating. It will tremendously improve confidence and energy levels.
4. Work on your general appearance and take care of yourself (haircut, clothing, grooming, body language, eye contact, etc...)
5. Stop sitting in your room all day and force yourself to go out and be more social. Talk to people, even if it's hard in the beginning.
If he doesn't do those things now, it will be extremely hard in the future.
Just like myself, he will probably ignore any advice I've just given and think "things will just work themselves out on their own". They won't, it will only get worse.
Yeah he is extremely nutrient deficient. They sell a tasty liver pate at Safeway that is really good with crackers. It has a decent amount of pufa in it but its worth it. He absolutely needs liver to get better.He has always been shy/anxious/poor appetite etc. When i was a kid i was always outside, playing and making friends but he never joined. He was quiet and would rather play inside or watch tv. I think to protect himself from more stress. However, during puberty it got a lot worse. Doesn't socialize, when i have a friend over he doesn't say hi when he sees my friend, just acts like no ones there. Locks himself in his room.
His diet for the past few days was basically:
2 bags of potato chips, some potatoes once, lots of coke/other sugary drinks/redbull and some bread. He barely eats, mostly liquid calories. Very low nutrients in his food if any
I dont think he has any allergies, never tested though. I was talking to my mom about it but she can't handle him and tells me to leave it alone. He is a lot bigger than her so she's kinda scared because when you tell him something he doesn't like, for example she tells him or asks him to go outside more or whatever, he gets mad and can react pretty angry which scares her a lot because of things that happened to her in the past. He only does this to people he knows he can handle, females mostly since hes very tall and quite strong. He won't ever talk like that to our older brother or male adults.
lolWell I'll be damned. He might just be autistic after all
Haha, i've met her. I knew her before they knew eachother lol. Not sure about the kissing tho