Jackson Chung
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- Jul 30, 2017
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Hi,
I have a very abusive wife who does the following to me:
-Doesn’t work
-Doesn’t study (full time Cloud Computing degree and I do her homework)
-Doesn’t let me sleep (asks me to stay in a specific position that’s comfortable for her but not me and wakes me up several times a night)
-Doesn’t go anywhere outside without me and forces me to go even if I am exhausted
-Isolates me from my family. If I call them she starts arguing. Wont even let me visit them
-Doesn’t contribute. The part time job she had where she made 2000 is for her brother and not me
-Cooks once a day. I live on OJ and milk for breakfast and lunch
-there is a log on my bathroom where I have to write down everything I am doing for her. Literally a checklist I have to check off everything she
my typical day is like below:
1. Wake up at 7
2. Work until 5
3. Come home. She cooks food maybe for me or leftovers from the other day. Shower
4. Do her homework 6 until 9.
5. No free time. Forced to be in bed by 9
weekends I take her shopping or doing housework 8-5 on Saturdays. Sunday’s I take her somewhere even if I’m exhausted. I get no time to myself.
if I complain or argue. She blackmails me:
-She runs away and I go after her. Takes hours to calm her down
-She calls her family saying nasty things about me mostly which aren’t true
-She turns the tables on me blaming me for the issues
-She threatens divorce
I cant take much more of this. I am planning on leaving. But I need time to prepare.
How do I stay sane in the meantime? Any tips?
I have a very abusive wife who does the following to me:
-Doesn’t work
-Doesn’t study (full time Cloud Computing degree and I do her homework)
-Doesn’t let me sleep (asks me to stay in a specific position that’s comfortable for her but not me and wakes me up several times a night)
-Doesn’t go anywhere outside without me and forces me to go even if I am exhausted
-Isolates me from my family. If I call them she starts arguing. Wont even let me visit them
-Doesn’t contribute. The part time job she had where she made 2000 is for her brother and not me
-Cooks once a day. I live on OJ and milk for breakfast and lunch
-there is a log on my bathroom where I have to write down everything I am doing for her. Literally a checklist I have to check off everything she
my typical day is like below:
1. Wake up at 7
2. Work until 5
3. Come home. She cooks food maybe for me or leftovers from the other day. Shower
4. Do her homework 6 until 9.
5. No free time. Forced to be in bed by 9
weekends I take her shopping or doing housework 8-5 on Saturdays. Sunday’s I take her somewhere even if I’m exhausted. I get no time to myself.
if I complain or argue. She blackmails me:
-She runs away and I go after her. Takes hours to calm her down
-She calls her family saying nasty things about me mostly which aren’t true
-She turns the tables on me blaming me for the issues
-She threatens divorce
I cant take much more of this. I am planning on leaving. But I need time to prepare.
How do I stay sane in the meantime? Any tips?