pboy said:youre kind of missing the major point. If something like surgery is necessary and you are an innocent victim, and being cut open with knives and all is necessary, are you really ok with being alive in such a world? is it really benevolent? are you just a slave in a body postponing survival for no real grand meaning? That's what you're saying if you engage in things that are highly non appealing and terrifying, such as taking pills, getting shots, surgery, whatever...any kid knows right away. The thing about not having time, you always have time if you are committed. Life works with you, but if you never tried, that's something you would say. Courage is key, your soul having balls is the key (or whatever equiv for girls is). You never know life until you try, and you never know if its worth being here if you don't put it to the test. Its about signals you send and why. To me living life as an abandoned entity who has to be exposed to awful soul painful things just to survive for some unpredictable and potentially bad future is worthless, and I was never going to send that signal, ever, via taking certain actions
I don't think I'm missing your point, I think I'm disagreeing with it. [edit to add:] The point you have stated, that is. If you meant something different than you said, I may well have missed it. :)
Yes, in general I would rather be alive in an imperfect world than dead, and still have my family in this imperfect world than not.
Fortunately I have not had to have surgery so far, but you never know. I believe some of my people are alive and functioning and enjoying life now because they got surgery and/or medical assistance when they needed it. I'm glad of that and I think they are too.
And I know people who have lost loved ones because they didn't get the help they needed quickly enough, and that can cause a lot of grief, too.
I had assistance with childbirth. Once that's underway, you don't have much time. I am very glad to be alive and to have my child in this world where that was necessary.
One of my children was strongly averse to getting stitches in and out. He needed them though.
So no, sometimes people don't have time - some things can kill quickly, however motivated you are.
If someone would rather die than get lifesaving help, I would be considering if they are depressed, or at least badly discouraged about life.