What Does It Mean To Be Drained By Orgasm/masturbation

[energyandstruct]

Have you ever actually had sex with a woman? Having sex does not necessarily diminish the need for masturbation in my experience, you would think it would, but it doesn't.

Also, do you think the amount of sex someone has directly correlates with their height? With no other variables involved such as personality, wealth, body type, how many whiney posts they make on health forums?

"Yet research finds little correlation between frequency of masturbation and frequency of intercourse. As one example, a study of college students found those who masturbate frequently also engage in intercourse more frequently and have more sex partners.[4]"

www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sex-life-the-american-male/201309/the-impact-masturbation-romantic-relationships%3famp


I've said it before but small areas of this forum are starting to turn into a really weird cringey incel forum.

I sometimes think I would've turned into an angry incel if I didn't go to college...

 

[energyandstruct]

Because I know girls, at least most of them, prefer tall guys and, in fact, one study found tall men to be more successful with girls, such as this one: Women's height, reproductive success and the evolution of sexual dimorphism in modern humans. - PubMed - NCBI

lol this is great scientific work ova heah... nice extrapolation, you should see if you can get a grant to study this

do you ever consider that there might be better things to ponder than the sexual activity of other humans? It seems to have broke your brain pretty hard

why not think about your own problems instead of constantly thinking about your really incomplete evolutionary biology theories and how taller men get laid more than you? It's not gonna help you, I guarantee it

 

[Kunder]

I’m 6’7”, love to jerk off. I know for a fact that I jerk off a lot more than most of my <6' subordinates. I also get hit on by women a lot more than any of them.

I see no correlation between sex and masturbation, they are two different things. One is social, the other personal. I like both, but I don't see one substituting the other.

That theory above needs to be rewritten.

 

[Hairfedup]

Have you ever actually had sex with a woman? Having sex does not necessarily diminish the need for masturbation in my experience, you would think it would, but it doesn't.

Also, do you think the amount of sex someone has directly correlates with their height? With no other variables involved such as personality, wealth, body type, how many whiney posts they make on health forums?

"Yet research finds little correlation between frequency of masturbation and frequency of intercourse. As one example, a study of college students found those who masturbate frequently also engage in intercourse more frequently and have more sex partners.[4]"

www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sex-life-the-american-male/201309/the-impact-masturbation-romantic-relationships%3famp


I've said it before but small areas of this forum are starting to turn into a really weird cringey incel forum.

You're right about it becoming a forum for the whole incel wierdo types...dudes make my liver gargle.

 

[energyandstruct]

You're right about it becoming a forum for the whole incel wierdo types...dudes make my liver gargle.

I don't even care that much, these dudes are really common, but do they not see how bizarre they come off? They should try reading elliot rodgers manifesto and see how much they agree with it, it's really so insane that it must be a troll played really straight/deadpan

 

[raypeatclips]

You're right about it becoming a forum for the whole incel wierdo types...dudes make my liver gargle.

Your liver is gargling?? Definitely the starch, do you eat starch?

I don't even care that much, these dudes are really common, but do they not see how bizarre they come off? They should try reading elliot rodgers manifesto and see how much they agree with it, it's really so insane that it must be a troll played really straight/deadpan

That guy is exactly who I picture when I read posts of people like that. I always hope they're a troll and they've hooked me in, but I don't think they are.

 

[Amazoniac]

That guy is exactly who I picture when I read posts of people like that. I always hope they're a troll and they've hooked me in, but I don't think they are.

Hopefully this is not a persecution based on his c.o.o.: country of origin.
If it bothers you that much it has to be relatable somehow (a past that you try to avoid, etc).

 

[raypeatclips]

Hopefully this is not a persecution based on his c.o.o.: country of origin.
If it bothers you that much it has to be relatable somehow (a past that you try to avoid, etc).

What do you mean about the country of origin part?

Not at all, what a bizarre suggestion. It is something much more simple than something deep rooted in my psychology. It bothers me because I have been on this forum for years and enjoy coming here and reading fascinating people talking about health and nutrition and now I've started to see one of the main places I visit online becoming a strange place full of strange people talking about things not related to the general discussion of he forum. I want this place to be more like it used to be, nothing to do with my past experiences.

 

[Amazoniac]

What do you mean about the country of origin part?

Not at all, it bothers me because I have been on this forum for years and enjoy coming here and reading fascinating people talking about health and nutrition and now I've started to see one of the main places I visit online becoming a strange place full of strange people talking about things not related to the forum. It bothers me because I want this place to be more like it used to be, nothing to do with my past experiences.

Racialism.
I never found a parent that could educate their children by telling them what to do instead of showing.

 

[raypeatclips]

Racialism.
I never found a parent that could educate their children by telling them what to do instead of showing.

I am a bit confused by these posts? All I said was when I read whiny incel-like posts, the image of Elliot Rodger comes into my head. For example when I read haiduts posts, this sort of person comes into my head.

Again, I think the forum has a tendency to overcomplicate things in every aspect. I said I pictured Elliot Rodger because the words remind me of things he said. I don't like the posts because one of my favourite internet communities is very slowly become a weird little hidey hole of angsty people.

 

[Runenight201]

i would think people who are more sexually attractive would masturbate... they get stared down by girls and it makes them horny to know the girls are DTF

lol wut. Does it increase their self-confidence? Yes. Pride? Yes. Makes them horny because they know girls are DTF? uhhh idk about that one....Also there's tons of guys with zero experience with girls who are deep into pmo addiction and probably jerk it 2-3 times a day.

How can you not see how related this is? It is obvious that being able to be more attractive for girls and, therefore, having a greater (reproductive) success with girls means less masturbation -- this conclusion is from my inductive reasoning from the observation of daily and scientific experiences pointing to the fact that women prefer tall man, mainly because they stare more at them, and, in a conversation, are more respectful for the tall guy.

As much as Mr. God of Cars has a pretty toxic view of life that is significantly holding him back, I think he is right about the sex-masturbation correlation. N=1, the one time I got into a 6 month relationship that was emotionally and physically satisfying I don't think I masturbated once. I simply waited until I could have sex. It didn't diminish my daily libido, I just knew that if I waited it would make each sexual session that much more powerful and intimate. This value to me far outweighed the con of being sexually frustrated at times. But if we were to draw the parallel between sex,masturbation, and libido, I don't think there is one unless sex/masturbation approaches excessive amounts, i.e 2-3+ times a day repeatedly for an extended period of time.

 

[Amazoniac]

I am a bit confused by these posts? All I said was when I read whiny incel-like posts, the image of Elliot Rodger comes into my head. For example when I read haiduts posts, this sort of person comes into my head.

Again, I think the forum has a tendency to overcomplicate things in every aspect. I said I pictured Elliot Rodger because the words remind me of things he said. I don't like the posts because one of my favourite internet communities is very slowly become a weird little hidey hole of angsty people.

Beautiful timing, Thunderstruck played as a Youtube suggestion when you posted this (really).

 

[raypeatclips]

Beautiful timing, Thunderstruck played as a Youtube suggestion when you posted this (really).

Praise be to haidut.

 

[raypeatclips]

lol wut. Does it increase their self-confidence? Yes. Pride? Yes. Makes them horny because they know girls are DTF? uhhh idk about that one....Also there's tons of guys with zero experience with girls who are deep into pmo addiction and probably jerk it 2-3 times a day.



As much as Mr. God of Cars has a pretty toxic view of life that is significantly holding him back, I think he is right about the sex-masturbation correlation. N=1, the one time I got into a 6 month relationship that was emotionally and physically satisfying I don't think I masturbated once. I simply waited until I could have sex. It didn't diminish my daily libido, I just knew that if I waited it would make each sexual session that much more powerful and intimate. This value to me far outweighed the con of being sexually frustrated at times. But if we were to draw the parallel between sex,masturbation, and libido, I don't think there is one unless sex/masturbation approaches excessive amounts, i.e 2-3+ times a day repeatedly for an extended period of time.

Did you see the link to posted to this comment of his? Ill paste it below:

"Yet research finds little correlation between frequency of masturbation and frequency of intercourse. As one example, a study of college students found those who masturbate frequently also engage in intercourse more frequently and have more sex partners.[4]"

www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sex-life-the-american-male/201309/the-impact-masturbation-romantic-relationships%3famp

 

[Runenight201]

Did you see the link to posted to this comment of his? Ill paste it below:

"Yet research finds little correlation between frequency of masturbation and frequency of intercourse. As one example, a study of college students found those who masturbate frequently also engage in intercourse more frequently and have more sex partners.[4]"

www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sex-life-the-american-male/201309/the-impact-masturbation-romantic-relationships%3famp

Ooooo

Ok ok ok time to reformulate. I don't think there is a sex/masturbation correlation, but there is a orgasm/libido correlation. Which would make sense. The more you orgasm the less you desire sexual pleasure. But it's not a linear correlation, but rather an inverse logarithmic one. As shown below. X axis amount of orgasms per day, Y axis libido. Pretend that it intersects the y axis at 100 instead of 4 lol.

As you have 1 or 2 orgasms, your daily libido doesn't decrease. But then after your 3rd orgasm BAM your libido drops. Ok that's the general gist of it obviously there's WAY more complexity to it and it should be a discretized function instead of continuous because you can't have half of an orgasm and there's so many other factors that are involved with libido besides just orgasm.

 

[kyle]

Beta chimp in the wild.

But seriously, I don't see Elliot Rogers as particularly weird compared to the rest of the culture in his outlook of sex. Sex defined his entire existence. He just HAD HAD HAD to have it and he was just imbalanced enough to become violent. He was merely following the dictates of a sick culture.

I mean, have any of you ever listened to guys that are "sexually active?" Every other sentence when the topic of women come up is slut, whore this and that.

My experience with women is similar, usually less colorful depictions of the opposite sex, but no less despairing.*

The more highly someone values monogamy the more positive their view of the opposite sex is. Just my observations.

*Actually, I take that back, I have heard women have said things just as disparaging things about men I just seem to block it out.

 

[kyle]

Alfred Kinsey and his work on male and female sexuality galvanized this shift in perspective

Stopped reading right there. You know Kinsey was a chronic masturbater who would jam metal rods up his urethra? And that they were molesting children for their "sex research."?

 

[raypeatclips]

Beta chimp in the wild.

But seriously, I don't see Elliot Rogers as particularly weird compared to the rest of the culture in his outlook of sex. Sex defined his entire existence. He just HAD HAD HAD to have it and he was just imbalanced enough to become violent. He was merely following the dictates of a sick culture.

I mean, have any of you ever listened to guys that are "sexually active?" Every other sentence when the topic of women come up is slut, whore this and that.

My experience with women is similar, usually less colorful depictions of the opposite sex, but no less despairing.

The more highly someone values monogamy the more positive their view of the opposite sex is. Just my observations.

Almost all of my male friends are "sexually active" and don't call people sluts, whores etc. Why do you talk about "sexual active" people as if its some rare breed of people that is hard to find? The vast majority of people are "sexually active." Maybe you should just hang around different people.

 

[mayweatherking]

lol wut. Does it increase their self-confidence? Yes. Pride? Yes. Makes them horny because they know girls are DTF? uhhh idk about that one....Also there's tons of guys with zero experience with girls who are deep into pmo addiction and probably jerk it 2-3 times a day.



As much as Mr. God of Cars has a pretty toxic view of life that is significantly holding him back, I think he is right about the sex-masturbation correlation. N=1, the one time I got into a 6 month relationship that was emotionally and physically satisfying I don't think I masturbated once. I simply waited until I could have sex. It didn't diminish my daily libido, I just knew that if I waited it would make each sexual session that much more powerful and intimate. This value to me far outweighed the con of being sexually frustrated at times. But if we were to draw the parallel between sex,masturbation, and libido, I don't think there is one unless sex/masturbation approaches excessive amounts, i.e 2-3+ times a day repeatedly for an extended period of time.

so being better looking would decrease stress hormones, so you would be way more horny if you had less stress hormones, girls checking out would increase progesterone since it makes you feel like you belong

 

[LUH 3417]

Racialism.
I never found a parent that could educate their children by telling them what to do instead of showing.

Good point