PolishSun
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Anger, grudges - it's all mental masturbation. Worries, anxiety as well. They are fake intimacy of one person with himself, while he is ignoring the rest of the world.
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Everything is mental masturbation compared against spiritual liberation and unification. Advice like this annoys me when I’m not feeling great because it seems to insinuate everyone should suddenly become a Buddha or Jesus with a snap of a finger. I appreciate it nonethelessAnger, grudges - it's all mental masturbation. Worries, anxiety as well. They are fake intimacy of one person with himself, while he is ignoring the rest of the world.
Forgiveness for me is a very annoying Christian concept and is the reason for a lot of people putting up with a lot of ***t. I’m still planning revenge after my brother was beaten to near death 20 years ago and left brain damaged in a bed since. Justice was not served at 4 years prison sentence. I feel a good smack in the face of the perpetrator for me will do me the world of good and also set my life back on course . I have also been victim to abuse always growing up with an emotionally weak father . And I found myself time and time again addicted to those who just don’t seem to care what happens to me.
So I look to pagan concepts and beliefs . If someone ***** you or your loved ones up you **** them up. But one must embody APATHY for the duration of their revenge or justice seeking . I have not yet set things right when it comes to me or my brother . The anger and mental mastirbation as someone said is addictive and empowering for me as I improve my health physically and mentally
The way I see it, we can’t hurt others without hurting ourselves in the process, regardless if we’re aware of it (or even want to acknowledge it) or not—sometimes, the closer we are to something, the harder it is for us to see it. I can respect others seeing it differently, though.I'm not sure that all abusers have been hurt themselves or if some are just born with a faulty brain connection. The one I'm thinking of does not feel he was abusive at all. It is a characteristic of a psychopath to feel no remorse and it's hard to know how some people get to be psychopaths.
I think anger serves an evolutionary purpose.Anger, grudges - it's all mental masturbation.
I'd like to slay all my abusers, which is a clear manifestation of my pride (a mortal sin, and worst of all).Anyone here forgiven their abuser? I’d like to know if it has helped you live a better, happier life. Or if you took revenge and got positive or negative from it?
It's dangerous to do this if you're still spending time with the abuser, you're just going to get abused over and over again. Which will ultimately elevate your serotonin even more.it's quite clear that being abused turns on a chronic defensive system, which revolves around serotonin. yea, you can feed off it and enact revenge, or you can take the more difficult, but more rewarding path and use peats research to try to turn off your defensive mechanism and open up again. once you realize that the defensive, serotonin fueled state is actively hardenening you, aging you quicker, and basically leading you to your grave, i think the choice is obvious to fight against those feelings, forgive yourself for having those feelings (it's natural), and understand that the abuser is struggling with his own serotonin induced problems
Oh yea definitely. It is of the utmost priority to remove yourself from constant abuse. Usually though when the topic of forgiveness/revenge comes up, its after the fact, which is what I was referring to.It's dangerous to do this if you're still spending time with the abuser, you're just going to get abused over and over again. Which will ultimately elevate your serotonin even more.
So ???? What’s your point ? Your answer doesn’t say anythingAnger, grudges - it's all mental masturbation. Worries, anxiety as well. They are fake intimacy of one person with himself, while he is ignoring the rest of the world.