As a bit of back-round, i started masturbating from a young age and i would literally get myself to climax VERY quick maybe 10 seconds using a death grip, i would purposely do it very quick and on a consistent basis too, so i've probably got a few years of reversing to do. if i rememeber rightly and i'm not sure if this was before or after i started masturbating but i would get to orgasm feeling (without any ejaculation at that age) By even just swimming?! So if this was before masturbating maybe i had some issue from birth?
Anyhow these days a few full pumps into a women like 2-3 and i'm gone (sometimes 1). It's absolutely humiliating. I'm very much into meditation and getting into the body, being present, taking deep breaths but the sensitivity i have is absolutely overwhelming and i dont think anyone could control it by taking deep breaths.
I was thinking a numbing spray, does anyone have any recommendations for 'safer' ones or do they all have side effects?
Anyhow these days a few full pumps into a women like 2-3 and i'm gone (sometimes 1). It's absolutely humiliating. I'm very much into meditation and getting into the body, being present, taking deep breaths but the sensitivity i have is absolutely overwhelming and i dont think anyone could control it by taking deep breaths.
I was thinking a numbing spray, does anyone have any recommendations for 'safer' ones or do they all have side effects?